No it's nothing like that, we're just a very friendly social group so we like to try to make sure we get on with people before we let them join. It's just a formality really, otherwise we'd have the group set to open rather than private.
We've had a few people in the past who didn't really like the way the group was and had a go at everyone trying to change it etc, so we tried to put down some guidelines purely to stop this sort of thing happening. Basically so long as you're quite laid back and not a douche, you should be fine!
I've checked out your games already, you had quite a few from what I remember but I don't remember specifically which ones - obviously my memories not all that great!

If you have Battlefield BC or Left 4 Dead I'm always happy to have a few games of them, and should be able to get a few others to hop in. Alternatively a lot of us have Gears 1 and 2, so could do that too...
I'll add you when I'm on my XBox too!
