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Bax x360a
02-12-2008, 12:52 AM
So with Valentines day just around the corner, this Thursday, whats everybody doing for it? Those lucky enough to have a lady friend of course. Myself, will probably be writing and posting a letter through the door of a girl I like, obviously telling her so, and saying text me if you feel the same way. No doubt I won't get a text back :p

Netnabi4
02-12-2008, 12:54 AM
So with Valentines day just around the corner, this Thursday, whats everybody doing for it? Those lucky enough to have a lady friend of course. Myself, will probably be writing and posting a letter through the door of a girl I like, obviously telling her so, and saying text me if you feel the same way. No doubt I won't get a text back :p

You need hope man thats the only way anything is accomplished! Especially in this kind of situation!

As for me I am oh so lucky enough to have lost my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was semi-long distance or long distance for teens as an hour to an hour and a half with out a car is waayyy to long to see each other regularly. So I'm probably gonna play gh3, cod4, and maybe some mass effect to mix it up.

King James 23
02-12-2008, 12:54 AM
I will be with my brother since its his birthday. School might be a surprise though.

vhayste
02-12-2008, 12:55 AM
Ha, I don't have a girlfriend now or a date so screw the 14th, lol.

Shinobi273
02-12-2008, 12:56 AM
So with Valentines day just around the corner, this Thursday, whats everybody doing for it? Those lucky enough to have a lady friend of course. Myself, will probably be writing and posting a letter through the door of a girl I like, obviously telling her so, and saying text me if you feel the same way. No doubt I won't get a text back :p

Don't you think that you should just ask her out in person? Unless you are already going out but then there wouldn't be the sense of doubt...

Is there a new Sarah Connor Chronicles on this Thursday? If not, I will probably rent a movie and watch that at home with my GF. If she has to study, I guess I will not see her and just play Chromehounds. Maybe put the "hearts" camo to good use lol.

EvilFrankfurt
02-12-2008, 12:57 AM
I don't like Valentines day. The real thing about it is, it was a day that the one dude had a bunch of other dudes killed, and yeah nothing about love about it.

That and the fact that I've been single for like 6 years? Yeah.......No special girl at my school to even attempt to sway, they're all to pretty, and all taken. So, whatever, I'll play Halo 3 or something.

Netnabi4
02-12-2008, 01:00 AM
That and the fact that I've been single for like 6 years? Yeah.......No special girl at my school to even attempt to sway, they're all to pretty, and all taken. So, whatever, I'll play Halo 3 or something.

6 years! Dear God I feel sorry for you. I shall send you a valentines day pm to make you feel better so on Thursday when you wake up you will have a nice valentine in your inbox!

Shinobi273
02-12-2008, 01:03 AM
I don't like Valentines day. The real thing about it is, it was a day that the one dude had a bunch of other dudes killed, and yeah nothing about love about it.

Are you talking about the Valentine's Day Massacre? That just happened to be Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day before massacre.

A guy wants to be your valentine ^^

EvilFrankfurt
02-12-2008, 01:04 AM
Lmao. Yeah it's been a long time......I moved 2 states away from the love of my life, and when I finally got the nerve to try and talk to her again (she was really pissed at me since we were moving away) she had moved as well. I don't think I'll ever have the same feelings for someone again, but whatever it doesn't really matter. I have my 360 to keep me company on those cold and lonely nights, lol. Yeah that's really sad.......oh well.

vhayste
02-12-2008, 01:06 AM
Lol, I am single for two years already but I don't really mind since I am busy building my career and gaming life. I've dated a few girls from work but it didn't worked out. Ah the only thing I miss about having a girlfriend are sleep overs... :P

Netnabi4
02-12-2008, 01:08 AM
Lmao. Yeah it's been a long time......I moved 2 states away from the love of my life, and when I finally got the nerve to try and talk to her again (she was really pissed at me since we were moving away) she had moved as well. I don't think I'll ever have the same feelings for someone again, but whatever it doesn't really matter. I have my 360 to keep me company on those cold and lonely nights, lol. Yeah that's really sad.......oh well.

Sad! BAH HUMBUG! It's not sad, look at all the electronic fetish videos made from japan and hentai! There's nothing wrong about a man and his 360.

Are you talking about the Valentine's Day Massacre? That just happened to be Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day before massacre.

A guy wants to be your valentine ^^

Shinobi you just backed me up and now your calling me gay! Wow thats a quick turn around, i'll remember that next time I post in the same thread as you.http://www.xbox360achievements.org/forum/images/icons/icon10.gif

Sanction
02-12-2008, 01:08 AM
My friends birthday is on Valentine's Day. He's one lucky SOB.

Me, on the other hand, have no girlfriend, nor can I afford one at this moment in time.

My best friend says I have my priorities all wrong when I spend money on games instead of trying to get a girlfriend.

Honkymagoo
02-12-2008, 01:08 AM
Probably drinking alone to try and cope with the fact that I'm going to die alone. The usual.

MovingWriter
02-12-2008, 01:12 AM
Spending the day at muh gals house ;). Don't worry, I'll be thinking of you guys.

Shinobi273
02-12-2008, 01:12 AM
Shinobi you just backed me up and now your calling me gay! Wow thats a quick turn around, i'll remember that next time I post in the same thread as you.http://www.xbox360achievements.org/forum/images/icons/icon10.gif

I was joking about that, trying to make the massacre guy feel uncomfortable, but I think you got that...

Sad! BAH HUMBUG! It's not sad, look at all the electronic fetish videos made from japan and hentai! There's nothing wrong about a man and his 360.

That reply makes me reconsider... I just count myself lucky I haven't seen anything that strange.

My friends birthday is on Valentine's Day. He's one lucky SOB.

Me, on the other hand, have no girlfriend, nor can I afford one at this moment in time.

My best friend says I have my priorities all wrong when I spend money on games instead of trying to get a girlfriend.

Damn that is crazy... I wonder how many times he has gotten chocolate as a b-day gift. Games are pretty good for spending money. I would say it would depend on the law of diminishing returns for which is better to spend money on. I think it would be possible to meet some chick at some free event if you made the time, then some money to take her out on a date.

Netnabi4
02-12-2008, 01:15 AM
;). Don't worry, I'll be thinking of you guys.

^^and your reconsidering me?^^

I was joking about that, trying to make the massacre guy feel uncomfortable, but I think you got that...



That reply makes me reconsider... I just count myself lucky I haven't seen anything that strange.



Damn that is crazy... I wonder how many times he has gotten chocolate as a b-day gift.

Yea I got that but I was trying to keep the mood light with a return joke. Kinda like the first part of my post.http://www.xbox360achievements.org/forum/images/icons/icon10.gif

Otisbum
02-12-2008, 01:16 AM
My best friend says I have my priorities all wrong when I spend money on games instead of trying to get a girlfriend. Gamerscore doesn't nag you, though it doesn't make you a sandwich either. :p


I'm not doing anything special. No girl at the moment, so I can just chill knowing I don't have to buy anything.

kyosh1ro
02-12-2008, 01:20 AM
I personally hate Valentine's Day because it's a pointless holiday. A day to commemorate some random saint that the average person doesn't know the slightest about. It's simply a day for Hallmark and related companies to generate a bunch of revenue..corporate bastards.

That being said, when you have a girlfriend, you are enslaved to this sham of a day and hence I am taking my girlfriend ice skating before going to her favorite restaurant. Now I just need to think of a gift..3 days to go. Crap.

Vista
02-12-2008, 01:24 AM
My friends birthday is on Valentine's Day. He's one lucky SOB.

Me, on the other hand, have no girlfriend, nor can I afford one at this moment in time.


Yo buying girlfriends FTL.

Shinobi273
02-12-2008, 01:29 AM
I personally hate Valentine's Day because it's a pointless holiday. A day to commemorate some random saint that the average person doesn't know the slightest about. It's simply a day for Hallmark and related companies to generate a bunch of revenue..corporate bastards.

That being said, when you have a girlfriend, you are enslaved to this sham of a day and hence I am taking my girlfriend ice skating before going to her favorite restaurant. Now I just need to think of a gift..3 days to go. Crap.

Up to three Valentines are honored on February 14th, not just one random one.

Esther Howland first started the greeting card craze for Valentine's Day. The industry has an award for card innovation named after her. Can't imagine how it is awarded...

Get her flowers, cookies, or chocolate. You better get on that shit right away or you're not going to make it. I already gave my GF her flowers on Thursday and chocolate on Friday. I hope she isn't expecting anything else, I was just early that's all.

badgerodoom
02-12-2008, 02:49 AM
My GF is prolly gonna make me go on some double date or something. Valentines sucks, just spending time with your girl is where it's at. The whole have to get a gift thing is lame and stuff, and she will probably make me compete with some guy on how dedicated we are to our gfs. Oh well i guess it's all in good spirits.

Krueger
02-12-2008, 02:51 AM
I am happy i dont have GF this year no more buying gifts that cost way to much money.

Birky
02-12-2008, 02:57 AM
You guys all suck! Anyone who hates Valentines Day is a Debbie Downer :p I will be going to a drive in movie with my girl and then enjoying a nice evening on the town. ;) I don't remember who said they would be thinking of us on their date, but trust me, I most defiantly will NOT be thinking of any of you on Thursday! :p;)

Jdm7399
02-12-2008, 03:20 AM
Sadly I'm working.:(

As a Retail Manager, you know I have to be prepared for the "Last Minute Shoppers". It doesn't matter anyways because my Girl has classes to attend.

I'm just debating on when I should give her the gifts. I already know that she'll LOVE it. She better...:p

MapleMire
02-12-2008, 03:58 AM
im going to dance with my girlfriend:woop:

avengerRPM
02-12-2008, 04:10 AM
My girlfriend and I already had a fun hockey date at a great game this past week end. Since I paid for all of it, she says we are just gonna go have a pizza date at a great little woodfire pizza place around here.

highpass
02-12-2008, 05:18 AM
Me and my wife will have been together for 2.5 years the day after Valentines (which happens to be the date we wed) so i'll probably come home drunk and beat her up.

Either that or i'll attempt to put candles out and cook for her, which will probably equate to just as much internal bleeding.

Bax: good luck with that mate, don't ask don't get!

Marx0r
02-12-2008, 05:22 AM
The proper way to celebrate Valentine's Day is to develop a gay crush on a fellow gamer and frag his ass in COD4.

aussie_warrior117
02-12-2008, 05:48 AM
Well the teachers are going on strike in my state, so no school but I recently broke up with my GF, so I don't know might get a little letter the day after from someone. Not fussed if I don't though.

Parkerktm
02-12-2008, 06:27 AM
I'm gonna get laid, striaght up, haha. No actully i'm only 15 and I'm gonna take my Gf out to dinner and then come home and get the new PGR4 achievements, also might get a BJ ;) yeeeeeee

GameFreak47
02-12-2008, 06:35 AM
Red, a color that represents passion. A color commonly associated with Valentine's Day. For me it will be very red, on my screen as I chainsaw noobs being well on my way to Seriously...

You know where this is going....;)

nictasty
02-12-2008, 06:50 AM
Sadly, my girlfriend has school all day from 7am-10am, so that means I'll be trying to finish a marathon run of Lost Odyssey before I cook dinner for her and oil myself up.

PerpetualHeaven
02-12-2008, 12:15 PM
I don't like Valentines day. The real thing about it is, it was a day that the one dude had a bunch of other dudes killed, and yeah nothing about love about it.

So what? That's not why it was called Valentine's Day. :p

Anyways, I'm actually working. My girlfriend might be sleeping over on Thursday, but it won't give me any chance to prepare anything special. Since that's the case, I'm doing something for her on Monday. I have very large shoes to fill as the prior Valentine's Day was so extravagant and "romantic". Must get the romance portion of my brain on steroids again. :D

And Bax my man, good luck. Who wouldn't want you? If I wasn't straight, you would be the first man I would call for Valentine's haha. ;) But I'm straight, so don't get your hopes up.

Blake
02-12-2008, 12:34 PM
I just broke up with my girl, she was asking for a gift and i sadly am broke.

UncommonRhys x360a
02-12-2008, 12:40 PM
i luv valentines day luv makin luv

PerpetualHeaven
02-12-2008, 12:46 PM
i luv valentines day luv makin luv

Making love with yourself doesn't count :p Oh snap dawg! I'm kidding.

I just broke up with my girl, she was asking for a gift and i sadly am broke.

lol, she asked for a gift? Well, that's a nice girlfriend. It should be the thought that counts.

brennan4ever
02-12-2008, 06:47 PM
I can never apprecitate valantines day now, its just one big marketing gimick i think.

Yoshi6107
02-12-2008, 08:57 PM
I can never apprecitate valantines day now, its just one big marketing gimick i think.

Hah, that and Christmas too!

Regardless, I'm going to the movies and playing some video games. It's nice, liking a girl who enjoys games. (Even though she's terrible at them, haha...)

Deyankees1
02-12-2008, 09:03 PM
I myself I'm single as of last month so I shall buy myself a gift. I also always get my sisters something I always did for the past like 8 years lol. I think Ill buy myself a game lol. I deserve it. But who knows might find someone before the 14th lol.

Bax x360a
02-12-2008, 09:21 PM
Bax: good luck with that mate, don't ask don't get! Cheers mate, true true. I usually bottle asking though. I should probably do it face to face but hey.


And Bax my man, good luck. Who wouldn't want you? If I wasn't straight, you would be the first man I would call for Valentine's haha. ;) But I'm straight, so don't get your hopes up.
Hahaha :p You're a legend mate. I had my hopes up for a second there aswell :( PH, I'll buy you a packet of Prawn Cocktail crisps for Valentines Day, and you wouldn't be able to resist. You're my 2nd option if I get turned down by the girl! lol.

Jonesy2008
02-12-2008, 11:50 PM
Im too nerdy for teh girlfriendz

TheWings977
02-12-2008, 11:52 PM
Don't have a girlfriend for one reason: Most of the time a girl would ask you out around a certain Holiday such as a great one like Valentines Day, then a man/boy (you) would go all out on her, A Dozen Roses Chocolate, and she gets you a minor one. (Thought that counts?) Then a week later she will break up with you, some girls think like this which pisses me off, so all you men out there do no get fooled... unlike me.

x SNIFE x
02-13-2008, 12:19 AM
Ugghhh, I don't really know what to say.. this Valentine's Day is going to suck horribly lol. I am fatally in love with the most amazing girl in the world, but we live across the country from each other. I'd give my life to be able to go see her. If I had some teleportation powers or could buy myself a plane ticket, I'd go to her. Sadly, I can't (I'm too young =P), so my Xbox will be getting all the love on Thursday... >.<. Ha, the only way I can be optimistic is because I know there are MANY years to come :)..

soccerplaya13cj
02-13-2008, 12:22 AM
Have you met her in real life?

Madman55
02-13-2008, 01:06 AM
Normal days ftw. Go to school, come home, do whatever. I'm too shy to have a girlfriend at the moment. :rolleyes:

Jonesy2008
02-13-2008, 01:15 AM
Ill probably just fantasize over other people having sex.

Shinobi273
02-13-2008, 01:17 AM
Ill probably just fantasize over other people having sex.

If you play Uno, you could probably just watch.

Spot2009
02-13-2008, 03:26 AM
Well I don't have a girlfriend, but I'm planning on getting flowers for a girl in one of my classes (which is later that day). I have no clue on how I will present them to her or where to keep the flowers beforehand. This is probably a bad idea :\

highpass
02-13-2008, 03:34 AM
No man that's a good idea, waltz up to her with a smile and say "Here, happy Valentines" then walk off. This way personal embarrassment is down to a minimum and even if she doesn't fancy you, at least you made her day. Easy as pie...

Spot2009
02-13-2008, 03:36 AM
I'm still trying to figure out how I will be able to keep my flowers a 'secret'. I was planning on just placing them in a classroom/office at the beginning of the day and then getting them right before my class starts. What's hard is how I'll get to school w/o many noticing, since I walk to school..

I'm also sort of worried that she already has a Valentines..

highpass
02-13-2008, 03:38 AM
I take it you're not a magician then, shame because the sleeve/top hat trick would go down a treat. No laptop bag then...

GalrenCreptus
02-13-2008, 03:39 AM
I'll be doing absolutely nothing, been single since June 2003, there is a girl I like who knows I like her but no idea if she likes me, haven't seen any indication of it. Probably just spend it playing one of my games or starting on another review for the site.

HxS F4T4L1TY
02-13-2008, 03:41 AM
Well, I had thought about asking a friend of mine (or more, if I got rejected) to go to my college's Valentine's Dinner, but all the friends I can think of asking just wouldn't work out. Oi. Legal issues (please, do NOT make me explain that one), job compromising (I work at the college, can't date my friend's in college :eek:), distance issues, all that good stuff.

Oh, but I will be picking my mom up from the airport. I suppose that will be good enough....

TheWings977
02-13-2008, 03:43 AM
Ugghhh, I don't really know what to say.. this Valentine's Day is going to suck horribly lol. I am fatally in love with the most amazing girl in the world, but we live across the country from each other. I'd give my life to be able to go see her. If I had some teleportation powers or could buy myself a plane ticket, I'd go to her. Sadly, I can't (I'm too young =P), so my Xbox will be getting all the love on Thursday... >.<. Ha, the only way I can be optimistic is because I know there are MANY years to come :).. How the hell did you meet her, or did she move there.

JesusBread
02-13-2008, 03:45 AM
Lets see... single and the only 3 girls I would think about asking in my school all have boyfriends so I'm fucked. I guess I kind of saved myself some embarrassment finding out that one of the girls that I thought was single has a boyfriend. Shitty week to find that out.

So, plans are back to the norm. Gears, Mass Effect, CoD4 or Halo 3. Whatever I'm in the mood for.

Doesn't bother me much though. I don't like dating while in high school. It just seems like I don't have any time at all. Trying to juggle 3 AP classes, track and field, 6 hours of school and a girl friend all at once is just a bit too much. Can't wait til college next year>_<. I'll actually have more time to myself.

On the other hand though, I might be trying to hook my friend up with this one girl he likes. He keeps being a puss and not asking her out to a "semi-formal" our school is hosting. Anyone think that's a bad idea?

How the hell did you meet her, or did she move there.

I've met girls on vacation that I would love to go out with. Sadly, they live over 3,000 miles away in a place called France.

Parkerktm
02-13-2008, 06:00 AM
i luv valentines day luv makin luv

Yea what purple said, valentines is not for you to be pleasuring yourself, sico. ;), lol.

I just broke up with my girl, she was asking for a gift and i sadly am broke.

What a b*tch,

Have you met her in real life?
eharmony.com Any phone sex?

Ill probably just fantasize over other people having sex.

Thats what i do every day, including at the dinner table, in math class, and at baseball practice, oh and playing HARDCORE team deatchmatch

MrDudeMan
02-13-2008, 06:08 AM
Fuck Valentine's Day. I can't keep a girlfriend to save my life. After a couple of months, I always get the usual, "I'm sorry, Jameson. You're a really nice guy, and I hate doing this to you. I feel sooo bad. I just want to be friends." Bullshit. Bullshit.

PerpetualHeaven
02-13-2008, 06:26 AM
Fuck Valentine's Day. I can't keep a girlfriend to save my life. After a couple of months, I always get the usual, "I'm sorry, Jameson. You're a really nice guy, and I hate doing this to you. I feel sooo bad. I just want to be friends." Bullshit. Bullshit.

Been there man. A good female is just hard to come by. They say that nice fellows are scarce but instead it's the other way around. Girls play the field more then any guy. They zip through boyfriends like they're a bag of M&Ms. Oh blue.. nah...in the mood for green.. no red today... no I want blue again. :p

All I have to say is being an asshole never works.

Well I don't have a girlfriend, but I'm planning on getting flowers for a girl in one of my classes (which is later that day). I have no clue on how I will present them to her or where to keep the flowers beforehand. This is probably a bad idea :

Not a bad idea. Actually, I'm going to assume you have lockers in your school. Now if you do you're set. What I did with one girl I liked is, I came to school a little late so all the hall ways were cleared out. Threw them in my locker (along with a stuffed animal). Now I new her locker combination and I put it in her locker while she was in gym class and I pretended to be going to the bathroom. Works perfectly. But, I'm sure you don't know her combination so it's best to just put it in there. If you don't have a locker, that's rough. Your best bet would be going to school with an empty bag and putting them in there. I've done it! Flowers came out perfect.

Just give them to her. Believe me, I've missed so many opportunities because I was such a pansy. After I got with my current girlfriend, I found out all the girls I liked in high school liked me too. You only live once, don't fear rejection. Hell she may like you, she may not. The larger the risk, the bigger the reward.

Spot2009
02-13-2008, 07:03 AM
Not a bad idea. Actually, I'm going to assume you have lockers in your school. Now if you do you're set. What I did with one girl I liked is, I came to school a little late so all the hall ways were cleared out. Threw them in my locker (along with a stuffed animal). Now I new her locker combination and I put it in her locker while she was in gym class and I pretended to be going to the bathroom. Works perfectly. But, I'm sure you don't know her combination so it's best to just put it in there. If you don't have a locker, that's rough. Your best bet would be going to school with an empty bag and putting them in there. I've done it! Flowers came out perfect.

Just give them to her. Believe me, I've missed so many opportunities because I was such a pansy. After I got with my current girlfriend, I found out all the girls I liked in high school liked me too. You only live once, don't fear rejection. Hell she may like you, she may not. The larger the risk, the bigger the reward. Thanks. Unfortunately, I don't even know my own locker combination (I don't think I was ever given one since I never remember using one), which sort of rules out the 'coming to school late' idea (I can't anyway since I get a ride to a street near the school in the morning). I think I'll just have to carry them with me in a giant bag or something.

So I'm going to have to ask my teacher if I can store the flowers in her room when school starts so I won't have to lug it around everywhere. And then I just have to bring it to her at the beginning of class.

The thing I really fear is if someone else gets her something.

J eVeRy DaY 514
02-13-2008, 07:12 AM
My best friend says I have my priorities all wrong when I spend money on games instead of trying to get a girlfriend.

ANYBODY who puts gaming before a girl has their priorities wrong. sure, you can't get an xbox 360 pregnant, but you can't experience love, friendship and all that other gay shit with your 360.

Bax, man... depending how old you are, i would recommend asking her out in person.
if you are already thinking about not getting a text back, then what's the worse thing she'll say? no? i mean, if you're under 14, its understandable, but this girl would hopefully appreciate your courage, and it makes you look immature if you do that texting shit to get to know a girl better.

Evil, man... 6 years? i am sorry to say this, but get over it. there is NO girl worth waiting for...(well maybe a select few...but maybe a years tops). and that attitude about every girl is taken, is just all in your head. just because a girl has a boyfriend doesn't mean you should forget about her, especially if you're in highschool or younger. all you need to do is treat her better than her guy, and i know that every boy in high school doesn't treat their girl like gold, so you shouldn't have that attitude at all.

and everyone else who is happy they don't have a valentine? are you serious, how could you be happy being alone? if you stall on finding a women again and again, day in and day out, and just think, "oh well i'll try gettin a girl next week" or w/e, then when you do become that 40 year old virgin, you'll look back at your teenage years, where you're supposed to learn, love, and probably get hurt, and think to yourself, "damn, i missed out." just something to think about.

now as for me, nothing special on V-day. I'll probably just hang out with my girl because we both have work, but we're going out on saturday for v-day/anniversary.

brennan4ever
02-13-2008, 09:50 AM
I do appreciate valantines day in all its glory but its one day, if you want something special you need at least a couple of days.

lol, Anyways on priorites i think girl should come before xbox but unless its serious, career should come before girl.

Webb
02-13-2008, 10:47 AM
I personally hate Valentine's Day because it's a pointless holiday. A day to commemorate some random saint that the average person doesn't know the slightest about. It's simply a day for Hallmark and related companies to generate a bunch of revenue..corporate bastards.

Couldn't agree more!

Me and my wife will have been together for 2.5 years the day after Valentines (which happens to be the date we wed) so i'll probably come home drunk and beat her up.

Cheers Harry, made my day with that amusing comment lol And all before 11am as well :eek:

The thing I really fear is if someone else gets her something.

Seriously Spot fella, it shouldn't matter if someone else gets her anything. If you do as highpass said, at least you've planted the seed of thought and its a win win situation so long as you are confident. If she's not interested, just shrug it off and walk away with a smile knowing you at least tried. If she is interested, well, what more do I need to say :p

PerpetualHeaven
02-13-2008, 02:27 PM
Me and my wife will have been together for 2.5 years the day after Valentines (which happens to be the date we wed) so i'll probably come home drunk and beat her up.

I did not see this. Holy shit! I've never lol'd so... LOUD! So funny. Oh man that's class.

ANYBODY who puts gaming before a girl has their priorities wrong. sure, you can't get an xbox 360 pregnant, but you can't experience love, friendship and all that other gay shit with your 360.

I don't think your priorities are messed up. Some people are just not ready to have a girlfriend. They're a large commitment. It's like having a child in my opinion. A ton of work is required to make it work properly. You let off a bit, she feels neglected, unloved, blah blah.

Bax x360a
02-13-2008, 02:36 PM
Bax, man... depending how old you are, i would recommend asking her out in person.
if you are already thinking about not getting a text back, then what's the worse thing she'll say? no? i mean, if you're under 14, its understandable, but this girl would hopefully appreciate your courage, and it makes you look immature if you do that texting shit to get to know a girl better.
Dude, I'm 19 lol... Do I appear to be 14 :eek: You're totally right though about appreciating courage. The more and more I think about it, the less I want to get with her. We don't even have alot in common, I think its just a looks thing...
By the way, I'm HATING all the negativity in this thread. People, Women and social lifes are more important than your Xbox! Don't fear about rejection, seriously, you'll be over it in a day or two. At least if you ask, you'll be able to hold your head up high with pride, rather than wondering, what if? What if I did ask her? And then later in life if you get married or have a nice girlfriend, you might always have that niggling thought i the back of your mind, what if? So suck up the courage, and do something good for your life tomorrow. If you're worried about what other people think about you, think of it this way? I guarantee they'll have more respect for you for having the bottle and step up to the plate. The only reason they might take the mick is because they'd be jealous of you having something they haven't, a bit of courage. So fuck them, and be proud of yourself. If she says no, its not the end of the world, you'll move on; theres plenty more fish in the sea! If you don't ask you don't get!

GottiMafia
02-13-2008, 02:46 PM
I'm actually going to be proposing to my GF of 2 1/2 years on Valentine's Day, WISH ME LUCK LOL

x SNIFE x
02-13-2008, 03:06 PM
How the hell did you meet her, or did she move there.

Unfortunately, we met over the internet. It's not unfortunate that we met, it just REALLY sucks that we are almost as far away in the mainland USA as you can get. We haven't met in person yet, and every day the waiting gets harder and harder. We met almost a year ago, and there have only been a handful of days that we haven't talked in some sort of way (phone, im'ing, email). Things between her and me couldn't get better, just the waiting hurts like hell for both of us. I just try my best to look into the future, this wait will seem like it was short once we have forever together...

highpass
02-13-2008, 03:12 PM
Snife: My wife and i were separated by the Atlantic for over a year, if it's meant to work it will - don't worry. Just don't get slack with communications!

Webb, Perp, thank you and you're welcome but wife beating really isn't something to laugh at... shame on you! ;)

Webb
02-13-2008, 03:17 PM
I'm actually going to be proposing to my GF of 2 1/2 years on Valentine's Day, WISH ME LUCK LOL

Good luck fella :D

Minty
02-13-2008, 03:38 PM
I'm actually going to be proposing to my GF of 2 1/2 years on Valentine's Day, WISH ME LUCK LOL

Dont do it!!! Na, good luck fella. You'll need it :p. Best thing you can do.

And remember people, this is the scary 1 in 4 years where traditionally girls can ask the guys to marry them- so watch out!

And why the hell are people so negative!?! Just cos a lot of people dont have a girl is no reason to slate the event- most people deep down wish they could have a girl ( if you dont, there's a high chance you will murder someone- seek help now). Personally, I love Valentine. Its great getting to show the other halves you care, and the benefits are priceless. And if not, like Highpass said, show em whos boss...

And Webby- any cards heading out to Wimbledon?!?!?

alpha305
02-13-2008, 03:40 PM
Haha. nice move man. I am just going to do dinner with my lady. Keep it simple

Bax x360a
02-13-2008, 05:06 PM
I'm actually going to be proposing to my GF of 2 1/2 years on Valentine's Day, WISH ME LUCK LOL
It'll never last!!! :p Nah just joking, hope it works out for you mate.

PerpetualHeaven
02-13-2008, 05:46 PM
Snife: My wife and i were separated by the Atlantic for over a year, if it's meant to work it will - don't worry. Just don't get slack with communications!

Webb, Perp, thank you and you're welcome but wife beating really isn't something to laugh at... shame on you! ;)

Yes, it is actually funny when you put it the way you did. I had a hell of a chuckle from it. By the way, kick ass song in your signature. :p I downloaded it as soon as Marx0r told me about it. Funny.

I'm actually going to be proposing to my GF of 2 1/2 years on Valentine's Day, WISH ME LUCK LOL

Good luck! But why Valentine's day? Even though I don't hate it, the day is completely based around males spending copious amounts of money to spend on their female partners.

highpass
02-13-2008, 06:04 PM
Yes, it is actually funny when you put it the way you did. I had a hell of a chuckle from it. By the way, kick ass song in your signature. :p I downloaded it as soon as Marx0r told me about it. Funny.

Score! That's two, thank you. And yes, wife beating can be funny, despite what Fox leads us to believe.

On an unrelated and quite off topic note, our names abbreviated are mirror images. Ying and Yang if you will. So nerrr.