Reallife to game ??'s

[shockerizgod]

i got a quick couple questions. first is when im playing say me and someone else have a full house and he has a pair of 2's and someone else has shit lol..that person beats them and gets chips but then i beat that person and get chips how do i not win the whole pot if i have the better kicker or hand?
also does this have ot be played like this real life?

Also this is more of this compared to real life. if i check and everyone calls then next hand i call but everyone checks does it happen in real life?.

Sorry if you dotn understand but i wanted to play in real life as well as the games but dont know if their different

[Abusive]

If someone else also wins its because they have more money than you when you went all in, meaning there is another pot just between two other guys who had more money then you. But you win the main pot because you had the best hand. Also, hardly anyone plays that game like real life so..