Ladies only please.

[Smokez]

Okay so ive been with my girlfriend for over 10 months and i realy love her. We have some ups and downs but its been good. So ive been wanting a tattoo of my MY Dogs birthday and death date on my back since 04 but i never got around to it. Well i decided im gonna get it and she told me if u get this tattoo im gonna end it. To me i think its realy selfish. This dog ment everything to me and it felt like a kid to me bc ive had him since he was born. She thinks tattoos are dumb and she doesnt wanna be with someone who has one. She also doesnt like that im preppy and i have my tounge peirced. But im not gonna change that bc its who i am. I told her im getting the tattoo and she ended it. Now is this dumb on my part or is she being stupid? I want to kno what u girls think about this and id greatly appreciate it.

I guess im gonna go ahead and take anyone's response.

[theghost]

Hey Smokez, i'm a guy but would just like to say that she's just stupid and you should move on.
:drunk

[snafegeeza]

Why, in the name of all thats fucking holy would you want to have your dogs death tattoed to your leg.

WHY OH WHY. A dogs a dog at the end of the day.

[Maka]

If she didnt understand, she probably wasnt worth having...

[theghost]

If she didnt understand, she probably wasnt worth having...
Wow, man that's deep!:p

[Fonkey Monkey]

"A bitch is a bitch but a dawg is a mans best friend"
Dr dre
;)


but for real though, if she knew it was that important to you and she didnt respect that, then tha hoe just wasnt worth it.

[xfrancox]

Why, in the name of all thats fucking holy would you want to have your dogs death tattoed to your leg.

WHY OH WHY. A dogs a dog at the end of the day.


Sorry Snafe, but I have to disagree with you on that one. A dog or any animal for that metter can mean the world to someone and I think its a good idea





Anyway, I say its her loss. If she's not even willing to compromise well then she isn't considering your feelings. Its your body and you should be able to do what you want to with it. If its something you really want to do and feel strongly about and she cant see that and respect that well then she just doesn't understand you well enough. Im sure you have talked to her about it and explained it to her and if the best reason she can come up with for you not to get this is "its dumb" well then she is being selfish and unreasonable. It also seems like she's being awfully close minded. If you need any advice on the actual process of getting a tattoo let me know, I have some experience with that stuff, haha.

[RiddlingCat]

Her loss not yours. Especially if she ended it over something like that, my girlfriend doesn't like tattoos either, but if it was something that really meant alot to me and I was dying to have, she'd let me get it.

[oVo Pandora oVo]

well from a woman's perspective she was an idiot. One thing you should never give up in any relationship is yourself. You are who you are, a tattoo is a superficial thing and the tattoo you want has meaning behind it. I think she just used that as an excuse to break up with you. She probably wasn't worth keeping if she didn't respect your feelings even on the simplest thing as a tattoo.

[Blind Fool]

well from a woman's perspective she was an idiot. One thing you should never give up in any relationship is yourself. You are who you are, a tattoo is a superficial thing and the tattoo you want has meaning behind it. I think she just used that as an excuse to break up with you. She probably wasn't worth keeping if she didn't respect your feelings even on the simplest thing as a tattoo. Perfecty put...

[SarkeBeeley]

Are you sure she really means it and she's not just saying that to try and get her own way?? Obviously if she is threatening you just to get her own way that sucks too. I have to say I'm not sure it's a great idea. I'm into tattoos (my bf's body is pretty much covered in them) and also animals (I'm a vegan 'cos I love animals so much) BUT it may be something you regret. When I was 19 I had my then bf's name tattoed on my back - at the time it seemed like a great idea, we'd been together a few years, we thought this was it blah blah blah. I know it's different because your dog will never be you 'ex' and you wont stop caring for it. My point is what about if you have kids? Are you going to get their names? If not does that show you kinda cared for the dog more?

Although I really disagree with how she's going about it - if you are saying to your gf that your dog meant everything to you THAT may be the issue. I love my cat more than pretty much anything but I would never start saying that to my bf as he may understandably take it that I was saying I loved him less than my pet. Do you understand what I mean?

She has no right to tell you not to get the tattoo but maybe you need to think twice about exactly what tattoo you want. Good luck with your decision!!

[Pugnutter]

Its the old i will never change you thing innit i like you the way you are hahahahah thats bullshit :D

tbh m8 she aint worth it if is is going to go off on one over that
her loss plenty more fish in the sea life goes on ect ect